From time-to-time, some men find they are unable to achieve orgasm even after extended stimulation. Everything seems to be in order a firm erection, a strong sexual desire and satisfaction with the stimulation, but it takes forever (delayed ejaculation) or you just don’t come. If you’re masturbating this may cause you frustration or if you’re having sex it may be embarrassing or it may not.
What’s Delayed Ejaculation (DE)?
Delayed ejaculation may occur if you’re unable to come when you want to for an extended period (30-60minutes) or you’re unable to ejaculate about half the time you try and come. It is common for some men to experience DE occasionally and for some it may be a lifetime issue. It is only classified an issue if you or your partner are having difficulty dealing with it.
Medications such as anti-depressants, steroids, hypertension and heart disease medicines may cause DE in some men. Temporary DE may be caused by Alcohol for many men. Depression, anxiety, stress or relationship dramas may cause DE through psychological issues. Physical manifestations can include chronic maladies such as diabetes or multiple sclerosis; advancing age, some hormonal conditions or surgery or nerve damage.
If your DE is caused by psychological issues start a conversation with your significant other, take advantage of your workplace Employee Assistance Programme, contact Mensline or speak with your doctor. Don’t be embarrassed, if DE is causing you anxiety a chat with your partner or doctor will be a positive step towards solving the problem.
If medicines are causing your DE discuss it with your doctor. Alternative medicines may be available and your issue may disappear.
If a physical cause is a concern, again your doctor may have a treatment plan to alleviate the concern.
If DE is causing you to worry, stress or anxiety it is better to deal with it than let it cause you further grief. Delay may even aggravate the condition. Start a conversation and make DE a memory.
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